Posted by Confused in NH on February 07, 2010

I work with this guy that I have been hooking up with since I started last Septmeber. We work at a school in the middle of no where so at first it seemed logical due to the fact that we were each others only choices (both single in the same age range). Since then, I have started to develope feelings for him and our hookups, while sporadic, are getting more and more intimate. He recently confessed to being a virgin and that he hasnt had a real relationship since he was in high school. He is also a very insecure male. I don't know how to proceed with this. I feel as though telling him that I am interested would only scare him away. If I explained that I wanted to see him more I think he would run for the hills. I am not ready to give up on this and I am in desparate need of some advice. Please, some one help me! Thanks!

Wow this has gone on for a long time!! I say tell him how you feel and see what happens. if he isn't interested, then at least you won't be wasting your tiem anymore. it's better to just know!!!
posted by Lizzy on 02/08/2010 Flag Comment